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How To Articulate Your Self-Worth?

I’ve received some insightful feedback from viewers after they watched the video on "Eight Ways to Accelerate Action."




Two women reached out separately with a similar question: "with a similar question: "How do you express your self-worth?"


This inspired me to reflect on the topic and share my thoughts, and I’d love to hear your perspective as well

 

The first step in articulating your self-worth is to let go of the "modesty syndrome" that often holds us back, making us reluctant to accept compliments.

 

For example, when someone says, "Wow, Wunmi, you did an incredible job with that presentation. Well done!" and you respond with a shy smile, "Oh, did I? I didn’t do much; it all just came together,"  

 

STOP IT! Instead respond by saying,


“Thank you! I’m proud of how it turned out. I put a lot of effort into making sure the content was clear and engaging, and it’s great to see it resonating with others."

 

We need to learn to accept compliments gracefully and recognize our own value.

 

To express your self-worth more clearly, take some time with a pen and notebook and reflect on the following:


  • Your Strengths: List your talents, skills, and abilities. What are you naturally good at? What activities make you feel energized and fulfilled?

  • Acknowledge Your Achievements: Don’t minimize your successes, no matter how small. What have you accomplished? What challenges have you overcome?

  • Identify Your Values: Reflect on the principles that matter most to you. What do you stand for? How do you wish to be perceived by others?

  • Recognize Your Contributions: Think about the positive impact you make on others, whether at work, in your community, or in your personal life. What difference do you make?

 

Once you’ve reflected on these points, try framing your thoughts using "I" statements. Instead of focusing on others' opinions, center your reflections on your own feelings and experiences

 

For example, instead of saying, "People think I'm good at...," say, "I feel confident in my ability to..." Consider sharing your reflections with trusted friends to ensure that your writing truly represents you.

 

And remember, as Oprah Winfrey wisely said, "When you undervalue what you do, the world will undervalue who you are."

 

Embrace your worth and let it shine! You are AMAZING!

 

Yours truly,

Amazing Wunmi

 

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